The Cry For Help...

I got a call two days ago from someone who needed help in getting over her fear of public speaking. She is the CEO of a Fortune 500 corporation.
Someone might think: "how does public speaking relate to financial disarray?”

Most answers are not on the surface…like: No savings=financial disarray.
Most of what we do is disguise our inner world with metaphors, symbols, negative habits, so that the material world doesn’t “see” our pain. The irony is:
Someone who really knows themselves and has an inkling of awareness can see right through the façade; I call it: Hidden In Plain Sight.

When people are out of control, they express it in a variety of ways.
Some people pick finances, some pick alcohol, some pick weight, some pick intimacy. Regardless, it is all about their inner world crying for help.

As we dug deeper into her journey of success we were able to see that as a young child, there was no room for her to be her. The pressures and responsibilities cast upon her as a very young child hi-jacked her youth.

A child’s feelings are the building blocks of their identity. When that window of innocence closes, around 5 years old, their “marching instructions” are cemented; they’ve gotten clear instructions as to HOW to move through the world in order to survive.

The trip wire here is: we are now adults, doing adult like things but our emotional imprinting is when we were 5 years old.

My client’s pain is: lack of self-trust, lack of clarity of boundaries. Where did she begin and her older sister end…

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