So, here we are at 5 men and 6 dates later...my dating coach, Bobbi Palmer (http://datelikeagrownup.wordpress.com) said to me: " OMG, you were wearing YOUR GYM CLOTHES on the first "date" ???!!!! To which I replied: " Hey, I look great in those skin tight pants and tank top, even Tom Cruise would consider batting for the other side after seeing me..." She was not amused. Her attitude is: First dates should be about being feminine, second dates can be about looking hot in gym clothes. She thinks this is especially important for me since, like many women in business, I have challenges bringing out my femininity. And I do want to work on this. So she thinks dressing the part will help.
Well, that shoots my practical side of walking with them for the first date, so I don't waste time with coffee dates. Hmmmm.
Well, ok....so on my second date with bachelor # 4, I wore Jeans, which he commented on, ok..good...working out pays off..ok...I get it, I never get tired of people commenting on what great shape I am in for my age.
But, back to him...he is an engineer and was very interesting when we talked about gliders and things I could relate to...But, he's really not my 'type'.
But a strange thing happened in the bookstore: after the movie, after dinner, when we cruised around B & N, and he was constantly talking while I am trying to read book covers, I looked at him over the table filled with books about the Kennedys...and he actually looked cute...WHAT ???
How can that be...? He is not my 'type'....zero chemistry...what's the deal ?
More in my next posting....
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